Sunday’s Sermon

Hey Y’all Screenshot_20170813-092414.jpg

So how do you all deal with toxic people or situations? Do you kick them to the curb the minute your spidey senses go off or do you give them chance after chance hoping that they change? I’m asking because this topic has been coming up a lot whether it be in conversation, on the Life Changing Alliances call (personal development) and Sunday service.

The title of the service was Time to Get Things Straight. In it, we talked about how Tevet (December 19-January 16) is the month to get your emotions right, to get into right alignment, praying for leadership and fasting. To this point, we discussed Eve speaking to the serpent and how there was a possible emotional deficit in which she needed to fill.

Had she been fulfilled, would she even been talking to the snake? So I think that we can agree that there was something missing. At that point, everyone was given a negative emotion, from insecurity to obligation and everything thing else in between. We then did an exercise off balling up the paper and throwing it in the trash which was symbolic of our confrontation. Related image

Even on the LCA call, we spoke about categorizing people as assets or liabilities. I’m sure this is nothing new, we’ve all heard this but what I did get from it is that there may have been people who were once assets but now they may be liabilities and if they are, you have to be willing to cut your losses. I assumed that if you see they are assets then they would always be assets.

Me, personally, I’ve never been one to just cut people off, yet I don’t mind confrontation. Ultimately, I think it’s less about the confrontation and more about the tone and vibe of the situation. I must admit that I’m usually the person to try and try and try again but once I’m done, I’m done. I am learning to trust my gut more. If something doesn’t feel right or it feels like someone is taking advantage, being willing to confront the issue right away. I usually wouldn’t do it right away because I’m usually wrapped up in trying to fix Image result for toxicit in my own strength which typically doesn’t work, burn me out and I end up resenting the person. Confrontation doesn’t have to be negative especially if it’s soon after the issue. It’s simply opening the lines of communication so that everyone is on the same wavelength and understands boundaries. A lot of times people will use an excuse that they need to cool off or get their minds right which I can understand but at the same time the longer we wait the less effective it is.

Do you typically shy away from confrontation or are you typically willing to face it head on?

 Beebz ❤

Advertisements

4 thoughts on “Sunday’s Sermon

  1. Good message! I love your comment about if Eve would even be talking to the serpent. How often do we give ourselves to relationships that don’t glorify the Lord? He has everything we need to be fulfilled. Great message!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Hi Tracie,
      I appreciate your comment. It’s so interesting when you really think about it because often times we look at the circumstances surrounding Adam and Eve and think how could they do that? but we do it all the time. We have conversations that will cause damage to our futures, sidetrack other people and even curse others all in one sitting and won’t even realize it. We definitely have to be more willing to keep God at the forefront of everything we do and say. We can get so caught up in life that we have aimless conversations and don’t recognize the repercussions until it’s too late. Thanks for pointing that out.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. So true and your previous comment was so on point about relationships. I just touched on conversation but relationships are so sticky because of the investment we’ve made but whose investment is more important? Our investment in these relationships or the investment that God deposited in us when He unselfishly sacrificed His life so that we may live. We forget we aren’t our own. The enemy wants us to value these imperfect relationships more than we value God’s investment so that we are EASY prey by willingly stepping outside of the protection of God. I’ve really enjoyed chatting with you. God bless you and I hope to talk to you more. Have an amazing day 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s